What does it mean when someone advises you to be humble? It often translates to, “Please, tone it down; you’re making me appear inadequate,” or “You’re triggering my insecurities.” It may also imply, “You’re achieving more than I am, and it’s unsettling.” Personally, I’ve never instructed anyone to embrace humility. Why? Because people have the right to express themselves freely, and it doesn’t concern me. My primary focus is on self-improvement, not others. I must address my own shortcomings before passing judgment on others. Those who insist on humility usually reveal their own insecurities, as they are more preoccupied with your actions than their own.
